The Shameless Lair: Code of Conduct
Goal of the Community
The Shameless Lair is committed to helping women and femmes live, work, and play, in alignment with less shame and self-judgment. We accomplish this through intuitive practices, intentionality, story weaving, and supporting one another in a safe and brave space.
Practices we use in the Shameless Lair include tarot and oracle cards, meditation, reflection prompts, and soul-full story sharing and space holding. We aim to provide a harassment-free experience for everyone.
Applicability and Scope
This code of conduct applies to every space in this community, including:
Public channels,
Private channels,
Discussions,
Direct messages,
Comments,
Live events (virtual and in-person).
Anyone who violates this code of conduct may be sanctioned or expelled from part or all the community spaces, at the discretion of the administrators.
Fostering a Welcoming and Safe Environment
The Shameless Lair strives to create an inclusive and uplifting environment where diverse individuals can connect and collaborate in a respectful and affirming way.
Behaviors that contribute to nurturing this environment include:
Using inclusive language,
Avoiding cultural appropriation,
Respecting differing viewpoints and experiences,
Gracefully accepting responsibility and constructive criticism,
Showing empathy and kindness towards other community members and leadership,
Addressing personal (conscious and unconscious) biases,
Continuing one’s education on becoming more inclusive and a better ally to other groups.
We recognize that impact matters even if our intent wasn’t malicious and we strive to do and be better when we know better.
Who We Are
Women or femmes who desire to embrace ourselves fully, build meaningful connections, and create a life that feels in alignment, including on a personal, professional, spiritual, and/or sensual level.
Due to the private nature of certain discussions and topics we may address, including intuitive practices like tarot, and exploration of our sensual selves (one way in which we can incorporate more “play” in our lives), all members, leaderships, and guest experts must be 18+ years old to join this community.
The Shameless Lair is thus a sex-positive community that welcomes individuals who are:
Interested or engaging in ethical non-monogamy/polyamorous relationships,
Part of the LGBTQIA+ community,
Into BDSM and kink.
Who We Are Not
TERF (trans-exclusionary radical feminist). Exploiters. Racists. Bigots. Robots.
Please note that while we may discuss sensuality-related topics, none of the content or services provided in the community or by Natacha Guyot LLC qualify as sex work or services. All content and discussions are meant to be educational and foster self-reflection.
None of the content shared in the community qualifies as financial, medical, mental health, or legal advice.
Community Guidelines
As members, contributors, facilitators, and leaders, in this space, we all pledge to have this community be harassment-free for everyone, regardless of age, body size and status, visible or invisible disability, race or ethnicity, gender identity and expression, sexual identity and orientation, geographic location, relationship status, caste, level of experience, education, socio-economic status and background, nationality, personal appearance, and religion.
At all times and in all community spaces, we choose to act and connect in ways that foster a welcoming, inclusive, and healthy community.
Unacceptable Behaviors
Examples of unacceptable behavior include:
Offering sexual attention or advances,
Making derogatory or insulting comments against others or the community,
Harassing, trolling, or making attacks against other members and contributors,
Breaching confidentiality and publishing others’ information or comments, which includes physical or email addresses, without their specific and precise permission,
Any other conduct that is considered inappropriate in a professional setting or space.
Enforcement Responsibilities
Facilitators and leaders of this community are responsible for enforcing the standards of acceptable behavior and for taking fair and appropriate action to respond to behaviors that are deemed inappropriate, threatening, offensive, or harmful.
Their rights and responsibilities apply to all spaces of this community and include:
Removing or rejecting inappropriate comments or contributions,
Sharing reasons for moderation if deemed appropriate,
Addressing members’ reports of abusive and otherwise objectionable behavior,
Respecting the privacy of members reporting incidents and inappropriate behavior,
Enforcing guidelines and code of conduct to maintain members’ safety.
Members can report any incidents to the community owner at natacha@natachaguyot.com.
Enforcement Guidelines
Community leaders will follow these enforcement protocols when determining the consequences for any action they deem in violation of this Community Guidelines and Code of Conduct. Please note, if a member uses inappropriate or otherwise unprofessional language in the community, depending on the severity, the consequences can range from a private, written warning to a permanent ban and expulsion.
Warning
If a member violates the Code of Conduct through one or more actions, they will have a documented, written warning with appropriate consequences for their continued behavior and a reminder of how to engage in the community.
Temporary Ban
Members who breach the Code of Conduct more than once will face a temporary ban for sustained inappropriate behavior to reflect on their actions.
Permanent Ban
If a member violates the Code of Conduct to a toxic level, which includes disregarding others’ lived experiences, inappropriate behavior, harassment of member(s), or aggression towards leadership and members, they will be banned from the community and their subscription suspended permanently, with no possible reinstatement.
Note: Inappropriate Behavior Outside of the Shameless Lair
If leaders, facilitators, or members, witness another member harassing, trolling, or otherwise displaying unprofessional behavior outside the community on social platforms or through other communications, in ways that do not align with the Community Guidelines and Code of Conduct, we reserve the right to review the severity of the offense when provided to us or observed.
Upon review of the evidence, leaders will assess the severity of the situation and make a decision about the reported or witnessed individual’s future membership, ranging from warning(s) to banning.
Next Steps
Onboarding Members of the Shameless Lair, please read the community’s Terms and Conditions here before you continue the onboarding process.
Thank you for committing to this space with empathy, compassion, curiosity, thoughtfulness, integrity, and open-mindedness, for all of us, including yourself.